Lets Go To Colombia

Age: 25

Duration: 14 days

Most memorable moment? Dancing to salsa in Medellin; taking a solo bike ride from the town of Filandia to Quimbaya

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While I researched destinations, this trip was all about color: the color of architecture, the color of food, the color of art and of life. When Cartagena came up in a Google search, it was immediately decided that I would go there. It's cobblestone streets and vibrant colonial buildings called to me. What I quickly learned, with each different place I went to and struggled to leave, is that the country as a whole has everything a traveler could desire. The city life is rich with energy, bustling with people and filled with the arts, while the countryside is green and peaceful, a respite from tourism for the outdoor adventurer. In July, I traveled alone, though nowhere in Colombia ever felt lonely. In fact, I found the people - locals who spoke English, locals who spoke none, and other travelers - lively and dynamic.

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Early on a Monday, I landed in Medellin, which most travelers will tell you is the best place to visit in the entire country. Since I only speak a little Spanish, I quickly befriended a man from Uruguay who helped guide me through the heat and through the city's various sprawling districts before climbing to the tallest peak of the city to watch the sun fade behind the mountains. I drank the best coffee at Pergamino, the local hang-out where freelancers hang and develop their businesses by day, and spent the evenings wandering through the ultra-hip neighborhood of El Poblano that is ever-present with Spanish speakers and salsa music on every corner. I found the city to be the heart of Colombia, particularly on the Saturday night I serendipitously sat down at a table with young Colombians who were impressively eager to show me their taste of local life. The following day, a Sunday, the city shut down: Sundays are for freedom and for relaxing with friends. I visited one of the few open spaces, the Museum of Modern Art, and its neighboring park, where hundreds of young people played music and danced with one another and gathered in groups and smoked pot. It was one of the highlights of my trip when a trio of college students eyed me sitting alone and felt compelled to find out why a young, smiling woman would spend four hours by herself. We shared laughter when I told them I was fascinated simply observing how other young people around the world live, how different and carefree it felt in comparison to young people in America.

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I carried on South to the sleepier country town of Salento. Here, you're as likely to sit at the bar next to an older Colombian man in jeans and a turned-up hat as you are a traveler passing through. That's one of the beauties of the country — tradition and tourism blend together so naturally. Salento is home to Valle de Cocora, a protected area of mountain foothills where you hike for five hours through sweeping valleys filled with tall and slender wax palm trees. In nature and in the town, I found comfort in eating at the same hole-in-the-wall, colorful breakfast spot, riding a bicycle from one country-town to the next, and drinking rum at the local saloon. Because four days was not enough, I ventured back to Medellin for one more night that turned into morning, spinning in circles to the beat of the music with a duo of Portuguese filmmakers who gravitated to me, and me to them.

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Minca followed Medellin, a backpackers' hub a plane, taxi, local bus and motorbike ride away, in the Northern part of the country. The reason people - or young people, rather - like Minca is because there isn't much to do. You can hike (through a path in the jungle for upwards of eight hours), visit a small waterfall, or eat at one of the few cafes on the one street in town. I stayed on a property a ten minute climb from city center, where every guest gathers to tell stories at sunset before a communal dinner. But oddly enough, even with my attraction to silence, I yearned for more action, more commotion. A day trip away, Tayrona National Park is one of the country's national gems, without having the feeling like it's infiltrated by visitors. In fact, for how incredibly well-known and majestic it is - with its sprawling golden beaches and mountain trekking - it's surprisingly peaceful. To reach the popular El Cabo San Juan requires two and a half hours of hiking through the park, which is rewarded with golden sand, palm trees, hammocks-as-beds, fire orange sunsets and near empty beaches. In the evening, the only thing to do is eat whole grilled fish, play card games and listen to the waves break.

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The trip ended where I had anticipated: on the cobblestone streets of Cartagena.  I stayed in the artist's neighborhood of Getsemani, but ventured daily into the historic old city center. Cartagena streets are grid-like, meaning the best way to discover anything and everything is to simply walk without any one destination. At first, it seems simple to get lost, but after the second time down the same one-way street, store fronts and door entrances begin to look familiar. I sat in city squares to people watch, as well as in bookstores and on the patio of sidewalk cafes. I ate dinner alone at midnight, because in Colombia, the night is just then beginning. Young people gather in the plazas, passing around cold beers and soccer balls. I filled my last day with food and eating - lots of it - from street vendors and speciality markets. My most memorable meal? Warm arepa sandwiched with a thick layer of melted cheese. If nothing else, I flew home full and satisfied and ever-more curious for South America.

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New Monday Routines

Just your ordinary Monday at The Bean, with Fleetwood and a hangover. Foreigners on vacation exploring too-cool Williamsburg, eating cheesecake with strawberry. Unstressed freelancers on their computers. Soft rays of December sunlight pouring in these expansive windows. An old woman outside at the bus stop wrapped in her winter down coat and gloves. Men walking their dogs toward McCarren Park. Friends sharing stories across tables, but not gossiping. Me, with my head down on the table and a pen between my fingers, feeling the most like myself writing these words. Not reading anything about media but reading a lot about creative writing classes around the city. Finding out where all the non-fiction writers gather, yearning to be inspired anew by people who don't sit at computers during the day. Who write poetry in their spare time. Who dream in foreign languages. Who live in New York but hang out at places like the Bean on a Monday. I'll sit here til my 4:00pm movie at the nearby cinema on the corner of Berry and Metropolitan. A daytime film! To watch alone. Alone but not lonely.

On this particular Monday, I feel the red wine from last night. The extra glass I drank on purpose, knowing I wouldn't have to ride the subway to work today like I have the past two years. I think of last night, of all my friends around the table, or at least nine really special ones, talking about farming and the most challenging part of my year at 25 and briefly - as with most dinner parties these days - politics. Friends who walked in the front door and didn't know each other, but then quickly did. Friends who arrived with all of my favorite things: ingredients and wine and a new cookbook for my kitchen, a clean journal for my new beginnings, colorful flowers and hand-written cards. Friends who hug me so warmly at the end of the night that I feel more rich and ready for the week. I think of last night, when rather than fall quietly into bed, I leave with my guests and walk five blocks East and five blocks North to my favorite neighborhood bar for jazz where I love to go and close my eyes and sway my hips from side to side. Where instead of thinking that it's already  midnight, already Monday, I simply let the music sweep through my body. Jazz has a glorious way about transporting me away from myself. Usually it takes me all the way home, to my bedroom in California, on any weekend afternoon when the sound of my Dad's horns sweep under my closed door while I read old travel magazines. Jazz takes me away to my favorite memories, to the places I feel most peaceful.

Waking up on Monday was rather enjoyable. At 10:00AM. To the sound of my housemate's footsteps on wood. The running faucet for a cup of water. The melodic hum of the coffee maker. The opening and closing of the bathroom door. Me in my nook, eyes still closed. Heavy head but feeling weightless. Stacks of notes piled high on the rug at the side of my bed that slipped from my fingers as I fell asleep. "Happy birthday my love, my perfectly imperfect friend, my daughter, my sweet niece, my inspiration...": words that give me life and make me feel whole. I am waking up just freshly 26 years old, in bed with a book and without emails. Thinking about anything I want and about nothing particularly important. Thinking that today is Monday, and I don't have a job but a kind-of plan, and that suddenly I feel a lot more sure of myself than I have in a long time.

Postcard From A Stranger

I sit here, near to the front door, waiting for the postman to present me with an ink-smudged letter from you. It might be flawed, ever so slightly, from your left-handed penmanship, but I've always found the imperfections are what give it character. When it eventually arrives, I slice the envelope open into jagged, torn edges, like when you try to tear out a magazine page and end up cutting off a quarter-inch of the typeface. I carry your intimate thoughts with me as I stretch over the corner of the couch where the last rays of today fall in through the window, and travel with you into a world of words.

Meditation On A Summer’s Night

I close my eyes in Fort Greene park, flanked by the far-away whisper of a Tuesday night block party, tree shadows, and a resting bicycle. Summer life moves slowly past while I float outside of myself, inviting the weight of the day to sink out of me and the tension behind my eyes to release. I try not to think about anything, searching for silence in my mind, but the image of a man and his pistachio-colored eyes, and the memory of his fingers pressed softly over mine keep creeping into my thoughts. It's not the first time he's walked in on my meditation—when I surrender to moments of pure relaxation and comfort. The park is a good place to feel this ease: a neighborhood place, a tranquil place, a lets-not-leave-quite-yet type of place, a place to forget about your day job or your anger. The park is that distinctive place that smells of a friendly BBQ in the early evenings, where joggers move up hills and across cobblestone, where my sister reads her book on Saturday afternoons. It's where I ride when the sweetness of the late summer night speaks to me and tells me to sit and be still.

A Nice Memory of My Grandfather

Screen Shot 2016-03-30 at 6.24.46 PM Ever having moved from Chappaqua, New York to his new apartment in Manhattan, Grandpa always put the word out he was looking for company. Wanted a reason to escape his own thoughts. One afternoon, having exhausted my time sitting in the park,  I phoned him on his landline to inquire about a wine or conversation about jazz. "Who is it? he asked twice, having not heard clearly the first time. "Simone, Grandpa," I said again."Oh yes, yes dear. How are you?"

I tell him I'm near, I think, on the corner of 5th Avenue and 69th Street. "Oh yes, yes dear. I'm just finishing dinner. Please come over."

I walk toward 72nd street, taking in his neighborhood on the Upper West Side, to his building flanked by basic necessities: a sushi restaurant, a bar, the 1, 2, 3 line. Charging into the lobby, I am eager to wrap my arms around his generous belly and feel the comfort of a hug that reminds me deeply of my Father's. "Miss, I'm sure that's not the apartment number you're looking for," the doorman tells me. "There's a much older man who lives there." His unsolicited remark is met with a smile. "Why yes, that's exactly who I'm looking for." 

11 stories up, Grandpa waits with his heavy laughter, dressed in a hoodless blue sweatshirt with the words BROOKLYN in bold, white text. He welcomes me in, past a decades-old cd collection stacked five feet tall. With the New York public news station playing on the TV, I try to remember the last time I watched cable television. Grandpa gives me the special family tour of his entire [modest number] square foot apartment, un-phased by the uncleanliness -- an empty frozen dinner plate sits out on the kitchen counter and work papers grow without order next to an old computer screen. He keeps a picture of my sister and I, ages 4 and a half and 9, respectively, on the wall, next to the wedding photos of his four children and that famous one of Dad and his brother taken in their childhood backyard in Iowa. Together we admire the stationary bicycle next to his bed, the one for daily 7 A.M. rides. 

Grandpa and I sink into the couch and into conversation. He tells me about his journey to reach London in the 50s, coming and going via the Atlantic because boat rides were cheaper than flights and the girls were plentiful, about the jazz publication he writes for although the editor stopped paying him many years ago, about the late afternoon phone calls exchanged with an innocent old fling from the West Coast to help ease the memory of his late wife. He asks a few questions, but mostly he talks. I like that: he makes me rich with his favorite memories so I can carry and nurture them into the future.  I start to get the impression this is what growing older looks like: moving somewhere small and anticipating people will come to visit and listen to your stories.

I leave when Grandpa grows tired, and we agree to meet more regularly than once in a blue moon.  He bends over and kisses me on the forehead. "Be well, dear. Please come back soon." "I will, Grandpa, I promise." 

A History of Travel


Where do you live - Brooklyn, NY

Favorite local restaurant - Talde (from Chef Dale Talde) is my absolute favorite. Get the guacamole, whole grilled branzino and crab fried rice for one of the best meals in New York. Cocktails are great, too. In the city, it’s a little spot called Lovely Day. It’s unpretentious Thai food in a very cool setting. If you go, make sure you sit downstairs. (It’s hidden). I also love to eat anything prepared in my own kitchen.

Did you travel when you were young - Always. My parents are huge advocates for family vacations. We camped a lot, traveled to Costa Rica, Montreal, Europe, New York (by way of California). We all used to love Hawaii - I think we went six or seven different times when I was younger. When business was really good for my Dad, he would surprise us by having a limo pick us up and take us to the airport. As girls, we used to love that. Now that both my sister and I are grown up, we travel more modestly, or at least differently from vacations that are solely for relaxing. We’re very lucky because all four of us enjoy the same things: a hotel room with character, hiking, museums, a nice meal and bottle of wine, and blues music. This past year, we went to a Blues Festival in Portland, Oregon, danced all night in New Orleans and went to multiple shows in San Francisco. We love to have fun together: I feel very fortunate.

Favorite airport - Can’t say I have one. I like the ease and familiarity of San Jose airport. Once I get my bags from the carousel, I know I’ll be home in less than 15 minutes, where my Mom will have already decorated my bedside table with a bouquet of flowers and left scattered newspaper clippings for me to read. Nothing really beats that.

Least favorite airport - JFK over the holidays can be a headache, but I’m not great with airports in general. I remember one time, flying home from living abroad in Paris, I got stuck for half a day at Charles de Gaulle. It was December 19th, the day after my 20th birthday. I had stayed out at a club until 6am, then came home to collect my suitcases and left straight to the airport. I might have been a bit drunk going through security. A massive snowstorm hit and delayed the flight by six hours. I don’t know how, but I managed to make my connecting flight in Chicago by only a handful of minutes. I don’t think I’ve ever been so happy to hug my parents.

Gadgets - Nothing much, really. As long as I have a book, a journal, a magazine and music, I’m perfectly content. It’s good, because technology adds a lot of weight to your bag. Though, I suppose books do too.

Favorite apps — Again, I don’t use many apps. I wholeheartedly believe in disconnecting when I travel. At home, I’ll browse Twitter to get my news and prefer email to keep in touch. I post photos to Instagram after my trips, once I’ve had time to process and re-live and appreciate the places for myself. I don’t understand the current fascination with Snapchat. It feels like it gives us an excuse to stay less in touch, because we already know what people have been doing. Who knows...I still write and send letters, so maybe I’m just old school in that sense.

Travel routine — I don’t have one! That’s the beauty of travel for me. I think the best way to get to know a city is to walk it, and walk it alone if you have the opportunity. Being on foot, by yourself, requires you to be hyper-aware of your surroundings, from the street names to the smells to the colors of the trees. I also always ask the people working at the front desk for their favorite local spot to eat with friends. I do love the research process before a trip - talking to people, reading independent guidebooks - because it gets me excited by possibilities. It always allows me to have a more holistic understanding of the culture so as not to arrive ignorant.

Travelers you admire — Anyone who takes the risk to travel alone. Obviously, traveling with a partner is deeply rewarding in its own ways, but traveling alone takes bravery and tenacity, and shows a certain level of open-mindedness. People who travel with a purpose to volunteer, or to learn a new language or work abroad: vacationing is easy and it takes experiences for one to learn that travel has a lot more to do than the seeing of sights. I admire everyone who has an understanding, or an interest in understanding, that it is necessary to immerse ourselves into a culture in order to develop a deeper connection to the people and the land, and have an experience that is greater than ourselves.

Where are you dreaming of now — So many places! Cape Town, Canada, all of South America. I’ve been a pescatarian for almost five years now, and I’m looking forward to going to a country famous for its meat to taste it again for the first time (e.g. devouring a steak in Buenos Aires).

Country you would most like to return to — it’s a difficult question for someone who is always wandering toward a new place, toward the unknown. With so many places left to explore, I love the idea of continuing to seek out somewhere completely foreign. Though, there is something romantic about returning. While the destination is the same, the way we remember a city might be different. We as an individual, as well as the circumstances will be different, and so we can create entirely unfamiliar memories. When I went back to Paris for three weeks after living there as a student, I suddenly had my own budget to savor the luxuries I bypassed years before. Plus, my sister was traveling there at the same time, so I was once again captured by the delights of Paris but with fresh eyes. Going back to the original question, I recently returned from Guatemala and feel it could lure me back for years to come.

Where to, next — I spent last year planting my feet in New York, creating a home and developing my professional life. But travel is really more of a mindset in how we engage with the world, rather than a checklist of places. So my mentality this year is ambitiously imagining a trifeca of balancing home, career and travel. This year, I’m planning to take a lot of adventures in the US, to get to know the great cities of the country and find out what makes them so “great.” Hopefully somewhere in South America, like a trek through Colombia. Also, I’ll be traveling with my family to Indonesia and Southeast Asia.

Home is — someplace warm, with artifacts that inspire you. Los Gatos, California. A fire in our fireplace during wintertime with my family around the coffee table. The sound of my Dad playing piano in the living room. Newspapers and lots of books.

Travel is — both difficult and incredibly rewarding.

A Letter For You On Your Birthday

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Dear Simone,

Your alarm went off 40 minutes early this morning, but only because you anticipated sitting with your thoughts longer than usual. You lit a candle and let it flicker next to your mat while the rest of the house stayed sleeping. It was a silent practice, just as you like it — just as you craved it above the clouds in Guatemala. This December 18th in New York is much like any other December day in New York, but you don’t mind that it doesn’t feel out-of-the-ordinary. In fact, it feels quite nice to appreciate the sameness.

You paint your lips a deep red and pack your body in layers. It’s one of those brisk winter mornings that the peaking sunlight is deceiving and the air chill wakes you up in all the best ways. The streets outside are reasonably quiet, save for the first Brooklyn commuters leaving their apartments. ‘Just get me through today,’ their faces say.

You walk one block West to the same coffee shop you go every other day that you wake up early, though you don’t particularly love the coffee. In fact, as of recent, you’ve stopped drinking coffee altogether. But when you write — and you love to write — you need a reassuring sense of predictability: you awaken your imagination through familiar smells and background sounds. Today, you use a credit card to buy a black coffee with no room, to-go, please. The words come out and the card slides and you can’t stop from ordering something you know you won’t drink. But changing up the routine will be good for you today. Today you are twenty-five.

At 25, as much as you love to write, you also love the process of figuring out the story itself. When your mind needs a break from words and screens and thoughts, you find riding your bicycle deeply gratifying. Never underestimate the power of the wind, the cold, the heat or the humidity to wake you up.

At 25, you are still experimenting in learning to cook. At 23, you hated it; it caused you angst and anxiety. Today, few things would give you as much pleasure as discovering a new recipe, and thoughtfully, meticulously preparing it with, and for, friends. You always hope friends would like to contribute a piece of themselves as well, since sharing a home-cooked meal is one window into another’s soul. Chewing to taste is something you aspire for, though of course, it’s not always an easy thing to do.

At 25, you strive to be kind and inclusive, above all. You value humility, selflessness, fairness, spiritual and material balance, compassion, integrity. You welcome people into your life who share the same values.

You feel inspired by the women in your life, for they are empowered, thoughtful and highly remarkable individuals. These women have drive like you’ve rarely known from friends, with passions and talents to back it up. Cherish these relationships. Honor them, too.

At 25, you have aspirations, but you’re not afraid of taking your time to achieve them. You are young and can pursue the deep passions of your life as they continue to present themselves. For most certain, your greatest passions will shift and evolve as you continue to look inside and discover what gives you intrinsic satisfaction, and fills you with excitement to wake up in the morning. Tikkun Olam is one of those things; always keep that desire to give a part of you.

Not only are you young, but you still feel young, too. You feel reliant (emotionally) on your parents. I think that’s okay no matter what age you are. That’s what family love is for. Your mother once told you that “family love is all-encompassing and essential to your well-being.” You feel excited to offer your parents the same nurturing and all-encompassing love, and for further growth in the future.

At 25, you are a ‘creative professional,’ loosely defined. You value, admire and respect your work peers. You call them peers because that is what they are, though they are also professional, intelligent, articulate, creative individuals. Even if you really love your job, you should always question what it is offers you in return. While you question, celebrate the things that you do enjoy about it. Appreciate your continual desire to be challenged; what a treat in life to love to be challenged! To want to learn everyday!

More importantly, at 25, remember that work is only a modest part of the journey even though it will define a large part of you for a very long time. Make sure it gives you more than just contentedness: it is vital for work to provide you with enough reward to be happy, to feel stimulated, to experience self-growth and education. When you think about who you are, you are not your work. You can think about some of these things instead:

“I am 25.”

“I am kind.”

“I always have more to offer than what I am currently doing for the world.”

“I am a woman with a voice and strength and ideas that I want to turn into stories that are read, by myself or by others.”

“I am a traveller because it makes me feel more alive than anything. I am a traveller because it builds me up, it knocks me down, it makes me fearful, curious, hungry, satisfied and whole.”

“I am mindful, and mindfulness should be coveted.”

“I am sensitive to the criticism of others.”

“I am indecisive.”

“I am always learning, from myself and from those around me.”

“I am true to myself; I am unsure of my intentions for the next five years; I am confident that everything will be okay then, too.”

On your birthday, remember this: 25 is not a peak, nor a conclusion, but simply a steady transition into another unknown phase of opportunity. Recognize that you are on a new trajectory from any year before, and remember to check-in often to make sure you’re still following the right path. (And that sometimes the wrong path is the actually the right path, and vice versa). If at any time you feel lost: turn around, or go in another direction entirely. Don’t be afraid to see where the new route leads you, for you will certainly discover something, or someone, ever more fulfilling in the process. Think of it as one great adventure, and darling, you love adventures.

Reflection: Questions From A Traveler


Alexi Surtees // New York

Words to live by: "This is it!" Many great words to live by, this is a short one I often find inspiration from.
Currently listening to: "Halcyon on and on, by Orbital"
I always travel with: pen and paper; also often an apple.
Book recommendation: Hmm... Oh the places you'll go, by Dr. Seuss

We met at a coffee shop, Williamsburg, mid-Sunday afternoon, put in touch by a mutual friend living in London. Simone is a wonderfully thoughtful conversationalist. "Thank you for inviting me to reflect on your questions. I look forward to many shared adventures in New York and beyond."

“What makes you travel?”

Coming from generations of cross-cultural marriages - wonder (or wander) may be my fourth passport. Most of my memories involve movement. “Alexi, where are you going?” I can barely stand and push at a rickety cart piled high with fresh Greek lemons, “to China!” We built secret passages to “Timbuktu.” We were always going somewhere, back to one place or for the first time to another. At four, my sister lays out her clothes by outfit, insisting on shoes bought too big. I pack only my favourites, returning outside to climb trees. If I close my eyes, I remember the movements.

Running across sand, dirt clinging on the back of my legs. The succinct passing of house, tree, street we might have lived. The outward hands we were introduced to, the hugs and kisses shared warmly by strangers. At home we read “We’re Going on A Bear Hunt” putting on our wellingtons, we squelch through the mud and rain. I travel, because that movement is how I learned to say hi to strangers, be open to experience, play games without cards, make feasts without recipes, awake with curiosity and excitement.

“What has been your favourite exploration or travel experience?”

I lived outside in Mexico for 78 days. Outside as in a sleeping bag, stars, no tent. 15 of us, we didn’t see people for 21 days at a time. That’s a very intense, all-encompassing experience. I had never felt such strength in my own legs and mind. You become hyper aware of every sensation.

“What is it like to travel to a place you are from?”

I think it tends to be more introspective, I used to try to see myself through these places. How my mannerisms may be rooted from one part of the world or another. How my love of being outside is evidence of Swiss heritage, or my depreciation British. I have become less interested in trying to place myself geographically now. I would rather enjoy the place and my experience with it.

“What is it like to return to a place you have travelled to so many times?”

Going back to a place over a period of many years, among the familiarity are elements of new. It’s similar to deepening your relationship with someone you thought you know well. My family is partly Greek, so my one constant has been returning to this special place each year. One year, we create a flower book dry-pressing each volcanic flower. Another summer, we write a story inspired by the sea anemones, which later appeared as a family dining table.  Some years, running and cliff diving are everything. Others, it’s all about understanding the stars and playing marathon charades. We are constantly wandering, sometimes going far. Other times learning more about one place. Really the question is “how do you become really good at seeing more?”

“You live in New York now, do you enjoy it?”

Moving to New York a year and half ago was the first time I felt a continued sense of home. I can create a space to feel like a temporary home, which I had done over and again. When I continued to wake up in New York morning after morning, I felt this profound sense of home. Describing to a friend I felt encouraged by its consistency and its challenge. Also for the first time, I felt surrounded by people who were for the most part displaced in New York too.

To me, home is a place in which you can grow - continually. It also has an element of consistency. Here, there are constants among the chaos, faithfully there will be people, and cars, and smells. Among this crowd is some of the most incredible compassion I have witnessed. I love the people in New York. Sometimes, I wake up and spend the day as a tourist in New York. That is also enjoyable.

“A lot of people share their travel stories, do you document your experiences?”

I enjoy reading stories. Interestingly, I don’t typically share my travel stories and am sometimes hesitant to document. During longer trips with lots of movements, perhaps staying a different place every night or so, documentation allows for a continuation of experience. I tend to feel so absorbed by the day that I often choose sleep. In some way the experiences become part of my dreams. There is a book I read during my undergraduate studies, White Noise by Don DeLillo. He writes of “the most photographed barn in America”, describing how “no one sees the barn” they “only see what others see.” The accessibility of sharing writing and photography, has changed our experience of places and this passage really made an impression on me. I do my best to place that new experience first.

A goal during my second year in New York is to document more because it can be interesting to see what others see.

“How do you keep exploring daily?”

On a daily basis I walk a different street. I walk the same street a different pace, looking at people, the buildings, the numbers, the colors. It’s an exercise in just actually seeing. Sometimes, I don’t look, I listen. Or smell. Or only watch listening to my own music. Sort of a meditation of space. During the first 12 months I lived in New York, I didn’t want to document. I wanted to find the soul of place.

I ask a lot of questions, too. Inquiring is inspiring. When my mind feels limited, I ask others. Exploring is a collective consciousness, so I love to also learn how other people are discovering new places or reflecting on adventures.

Drinking Coffee In A City That Loves To Drink It

. . . On saying goodbye to the little things

The paper cup was barely the size of my palm, but large enough that my fingers could grip around it comfortably. The espresso inside was a dark roast, both strong and potent in its aroma and taste. I knew drinking it at 4pm, even on a lazy Sunday as it was, would keep me wide awake with thoughts of California. Seated on the one of two benches available in the coffee shop, I took the first sip. I added a pinch of brown sugar cane powder from the wooden condiments shelf: it tasted more pure than white sugar and somehow felt healthier, too.

The shop was also small and comfortable, with bare brick walls illuminated by filament bulbs. Three circular top hats hung behind the man in a plaid top and denim apron who took my order. At that time in my life, I should have been conscious with my habitual spendings, but still I forked over 4.5 dollar coins for the drink. All of it — the simplicity of light, the smells that make you happy to spend, the artisanal everything that are not considered artisanal, but rather normal — is typical of Melbourne. Of which there are many, these qualities are just a number of the things that I loved.

I didn’t plan to sit there for an hour, carelessly lost watching as customers walked in and out. Most of the people who came and went carried colorful, heavy bags filled with produce purchased just outside at the Queen Victoria Market. I remember this vividly because I, too, carried colorful, heavy bags that I would later bring home to prepare for our weekly Sunday family dinner.

It was never my favorite coffee shop in Melbourne, nor was it one that I frequented, but on this day I enjoyed it all the same. On this lazy Sunday in particular I realized how special it was: I sat and savored my espresso slowly, thoughtfully, knowing that in just a few days I would be on an airplane home.